Note: For those in a reader, sorry for re-posting. It’s amazing, I’ve been reading several posts by bloggers I follow this morning, and a few of them are going through some stuff that sounds strikingly familiar, both with regards to gardening and blogging. First of all, I have noticed that not very many people post about their failures, which is understandable, and it applies to this blog as well as my family blog that the focus should be positive. It’s easy to forget that failures can result in positive experiences, and that is what I try to blog about when I write about struggles. I want people to know that I make mistakes, and that I don’t know everything about gardening -or about anything for that matter- but that I’m learning, which is fun- and human. I hope to have human interaction through this, avoiding all superhumans, because they make me feel nervous and inadequate. I deeply appreciate it when someone does write that they had a hard time with something, or they didn’t have some vital information, or they just pulled a knucklehead move. Because I’ve done all of the above.
Second, about the undue pressure to post. As I’ve said, I have a family blog, and I don’t post as often as I could, and when I don’t, I feel bad. WHY?! It’s supposed to be fun and informative. I’m not trying to make money doing this, and if I don’t post for awhile, it doesn’t mean we aren’t doing cool stuff. So, I blog when I want to. As for this blog, I’m feeling behind, I’ve done a lot in my garden that I haven’t yet written about, and by the time I do I will be even further behind- bla bla bla, you see where this goes, and if you have a blog, you know exactly what I mean. I will post all my stuff eventually, but maybe everyone won’t know -today- what I did -today-. Oh well. Also, it’s easy to garden (or whatever) for the blog rather than garden(or whatever) for the right reasons. It’s about keeping it in perspective and not letting it become yet another demand on your time. At least it is for me.
Third, gardening.- I was commenting earlier and made the point that I have five survivng pea plants left, (whoopie) Clyde (my daughter’s dog) and the kids (teenagers, for goodness sake) have destroyed several of my seedlings, all of my Brassicas for the spring, I almost killed all my tomatoes, and this was before any warm season stuff was actually put out. Then the flea beetles attacked my ground cherries as soon as I did. The point to this rant? The point is- life is challenging, gardening is challenging, spelling challenging is challenging. But we keep going and trying and learning, for a few reasons. Here are some of mine depending on my mood:
Really pissed off: I can’t justify quitting to my husband, when I’ve spent money on this endeavor. (hehe)
Moderately pissed off: What am I gonna do, sit in the house with the very vagabonds who wrecked my plants?
Mildly miffed: Dang it, I want some @$&# Ground Cherries.
Through the eyes of reason: (real answers) I can’t let my kids see me quit in the face of adversity. I will eventually succeed in a meaningful way. Daniel-son, that which does not kill you only makes you stronger, (or more experienced, and therefore more successful.)
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